:: How to 'Rope' a Companion

Can you really attract women with magic? A current thread at the Magic Cafe ask that time-honored question.

Being a man of mystery myself, I felt compelled to offer my two cents worth. Right or wrong, these are my personal findings, based on my highly scientific research, as posted at the Cafe..

Let's just say this - women love a man of mystery. If you can perform a couple of mentalism effects that makes it appear that you are reading her mind, she cannot stand it!

Women are quicker to believe, or perhaps want to believe, that mind reading and things paranormal are real. That goes back to the mysterious stranger - man of mystery thing that women fantasize about..

1) When performing for a female, it's best to perform for her personally, as opposed to performing something for a crowd. This makes her feel special and increases the feeling that you have done something of a "very mystic, very personal" nature and connected with her on some deeply psychic level..

2) Women long to be understood. If you can show her that you "understand" what she's thinking, you've got a fan for life. This is why women, twenty-to-one over men, visit psychics and mediums... They want to be understood... They want to make a mental and emotional connection with someone..

3) Women are somewhat more fantasy-prone than men, except they do not fantasize about the same things men fantasize about. Women think about meeting a man who instinctively knows what she wants and needs. So, if you smoke her with your magic, you've got to be prepared to follow through with a little understanding and romancing. Otherwise.. you're back in the corner showing your buds card tricks..

A few posters relate stories of approaching females with their magic, only to be shunned or embarrased. Hey, 'stuff happens'. You have to use common sense and you have to make sure your audience actually wants to see your trick. You can hardly walk up to a female and say "Hi, I'm a magician, and I would like to show you a card trick." .

Striking up some type of conversation beforehand will go a long ways toward having your magic accepted, and in turn, you as well.

Having a deck of cards in your hand and casually performing faro shuffles or color changes may be enough to spark someone's interest and lead to a meaningful 'conversation'...

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